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You and I are the same in many ways. You have your good belief systems and your strong personality traits and I have mine. You think that is enough to get you through your life in a happy and productive way. I agree, for the most part. Those things are important. At one point in… Read More 5 Things You Must Stop Believing
Not long ago, I was not “The Martial Arts Woman.” I was just a lady who wanted to find a way to share her martial arts training and help people apply a martial art mindset to their lives; a better, more positive way of thinking for everyone. It’s a big undertaking and I’ve learned a… Read More How To Cultivate Your Presence
Because I live on 5 acres of property, and until we recently had our Internet service converted to a satellite, there were times when my Internet would just stop working. Do you know what it is like to be without Internet these days? It’s terrible! It’s unbelievable, considering today’s age of Internet, but for people… Read More Has the Internet Ruined Martial Arts?
There was a time when the negative or hateful words of others affected me. Sometimes it was even my own negative or hateful words toward myself. When judged harshly, by others or by yourself, it is difficult to find peace within. You can convince yourself that you are not worthy. You can tell yourself you… Read More Today, Nobody Judges Me
A martial art master has grace at every level. She knows her martial art internally and externally. She has studied and practiced and will never be perfect. In fact, as each day passes she realizes there is no such thing as perfection, but the journey towards personal excellence is what matters. The more she massages… Read More 7 Martial Art Life Skills Anyone Can Master
If you know anything about me by now, it is that I write about topics that inspire, challenge, or even scare me. I don’t usually have the dreaded “writer’s block” because it seems one of these categories reveals itself to me in one way or another every day. I’ve written about pain before, but recently… Read More 4 Purposes for Pain
I want to be like Bruce Lee. It doesn’t matter that I’m less athletic than he was, or that I’m a girl. I don’t care if I don’t practice the same style or that I have never been a movie star. I think none of that matters because Bruce Lee lives in me in ways I… Read More To Be Like Bruce Lee
There are different reasons people are attracted to martial arts, none of which can be specifically defined. The explanations are personal and unique to each martial arts lover. Overall, though, people love martial arts because they represent physicality and artistry all in one. It’s easy to see how “fighting” and “art” combined together create a fascinating diversion from day-to-day life. Along with being a… Read More The Real Appeal of Martial Arts
The Last Breath (Written for 1000 Voices for Compassion) Sometimes the most profound things happen when we listen. The first cry of a newborn or the last breath of air exhaled at the end of a person’s life. One breath. That is all that holds us on the cusp between life and death. My father… Read More The Last Breath – A Moment of Compassion
Years ago, I worked in a law firm and we had to keep track of the hours we spent on each case in order to appropriately bill the client. Someone in the accounting department would take care of the “metrics” or the “measurements” of the firm’s goals with respect to financial stability and revenue. Now,… Read More Measuring the Unmeasurable
