I guess the title of this post sounds a little demanding and perhaps a touch disgruntled. I think that is what it takes to remind all of us that we are often headed in the wrong direction. As a martial artist, I always try to take the high road, give credit where credit is due,… Read More Why You Should Just Shut Up
There are many reasons, in my opinion, why female martial artists stand out or make a difference. Here are three things that impact my opinion the most. 1. They train. In my martial art career, I have been fortunate enough to meet some very awesome female martial artists and female martial art instructors.These are important… Read More 3 Reasons Female Martial Artists Rule
I never said the phrase “no worries.” Then, one day, like everyone else, I just picked up the habit. It’s less personal than “you’re forgiven” and more casual than “it’s okay.” It’s a quick response to an apology. You forgive others easily via the “no worries” route because, in the big scheme of things, whatever… Read More “No Worries”- Martial Arts Woman Advice
So, you’ve been practicing a long time, right? It has practically been a lifetime of training, teaching, and moving up the ranks. You have great students and a thriving martial arts school. Everything is just as it should be. The kids that you teach have tenacity. They are like any group of kids, emotional one… Read More Why Your Martial Arts Students Should Be Better Than You
Years ago, when my husband and I were just starting our family, we owned a commercial cleaning company. We purchased the business in our twenties as a way for my husband to use his Master’s Degree in Business toward something of our own. We worked nights because that’s when companies that needed to be cleaned… Read More Blindsided by a Gang
Negativity is trending. It always has, really. It is no surprise that you find interest in the heartbreaks, setbacks, and difficulties of others. It is interesting. You can relate to some of it. You laugh at the ridiculous parts, and hope it never happens to you. Still, what gets through to your thought process will… Read More Negativity is Trending
I frequently talk about the benefits of martial arts. They are not only a physical exercise, but they promote great mental wellness, too. In tough times, a martial art mindset can lead you in the right direction. You can win mental battles and increase physical strength at the same time. They empower women, men, and… Read More 4 Misguided Interpretations of Martial Arts
The other day I was driving when I ran into a few storms. I take it for granted that most mornings are dry and dark as I weave my way through a few country roads, then enter the highway and mesh with the oncoming traffic. It’s not too difficult and not too stressful. … Read More Reacting to the Storms of Life with a Martial Art Mindset
Today I checked out of a hotel after a four night stay. The vacation was mostly relaxing, although I did some work along the way, set a few appointments, and finished up a few projects. Well, that’s me. I cannot turn off my brain! Being away from home helped, though. I cut down on the… Read More Check-In To Your Best Life Ever
I just perused Jamie Clubb’s book, “Mordred’s Victory & Other Martial Mutterings.” If you want to read a book that causes you to ponder, question, and investigate the broad variables of martial arts, then Jamie Clubb’s book fits the bill. Don’t expect to agree with everything Jamie says. He is going to shake up some… Read More Book Review: Mordred’s Victory & Other Martial Mutterings by Jamie Clubb
