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Alena Turley – Insights and Inspiration from a Hapkido Perspective

Alena Turley (Sydney, Australia)  understands the power of training.  As just a white belt, she fended off two attackers and later overcame a brief imprisonment at home by knife. Click here to listen: https://anchor.fm/andrea-harkins/episodes/Alena-Turley—Insights-and-Inspiration-from-a-Hapkido-Perspective-ekfqju. With her own experience of trauma and abuse behind her, she is uniquely qualified to work with women to develop strength and confidence on the mats with warmth and determination.

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Today, Alena is the founder of one of Australia’s first women’s only Hapkido classes. She is a blogger, an award-winning educator, content creator and mother of three. She also founded the pioneering ethical lifestyle & soulful parenting hub, SoulMammaBlog.com.

Background & Bio:  

“Whatever shows up for us in life shows up for us on the mat.” -Alena Turley

I started training in 1994, trained for 5 years to Red Belt level. Then, after a twenty-year hiatus, began training again in 2018. I was inspired by pop culture references to martial arts and various cultures and drawn to a warrior spirit for women. 

I was young and single and living in inner Sydney so initially, I was honestly just looking for some fitness, wellbeing and self-defence. Hapkido quickly drew me with its holistic offering of mental, physical and spiritual practice in the context of a welcoming and ethical community. Holitically, Hapkido allows me to train my mind, body, and spirit at the same time. It is a whole package in terms of principles of harmony and it is extremely healing for trauma. Integrating all the parts of yourself and becoming present is very powerful.  As you progress through the levels of belts or degrees, the ultimate goal is service to the community.

Martial arts holds me accountable to the fundamental elements of wellness such as eating better, drinking water, and getting more sleep. As a mom, it gives me space outside of my role of mother and caretaker and have a couple of hours purely dedicated to my own development.

Being a qualified school teacher I have a firmly entrenched love of learning and sharing that with young people. Even back when I first began training, I always wanted to participate in the tradition of learning and teaching that has been going on for thousands of years with this artform. People are generously nurtured through their belts and then, in turn, they nurture others. I was always particularly drawn to the idea of teaching kids and women. It’s incredibly rewarding sharing Hapkido with others and watching them develop as martial artists. I feel like Hapkido has done so much for me that I need to give something back. Teaching is the best way to learn and to break down any technique and analyze it. We also have a responsibility to create safe spaces for those we teach.

I am fairly new to instructing, but I was asked to help partly because I have a background in martial arts and a deeper understanding for what women need when the trail. I like teaching kids and women because it is fun and children and women are slightly more vulnerable to domestic violence or learning difficulties for kids.

I received awards for leadership and academic performance and have been a blogger for the past eleven years.

I think martial arts are so important for women because I don’t think women are conditioned to be very good at receiving. We potentially have a different relationship with power. The ability to receive and draw power is as important as being a giver. Controlled aggression is important in life. It is important to be strong and powerful and aggressive when necessary. Once you learn assertiveness and power, you actually become more gentle, nurturing and compassionate because you are not afraid to be. It takes courage.

Martial arts affect my life outside the dojo. Having a healthy outlet makes me a less angry mom. I can kick and punch a bag and get my frustrations out and bring less of them home. It’s helpful for my kids to see me as strong and healthy and participating in the community. Martial arts gave me mental resilience and also discipline.

The advice I would give to a woman about martial arts is to give them a try and bring your fear along with you, If you have a need or yearning for martial arts, there is no harm in trying it. It’s definitely worth a try. Bring your fear and do it anyway. You don’t know what you might discover.

The name of the school where I train is Northern Beaches Hapkido. Our instructors are so committed, the culture of the club is very nurturing and family orientated. Plus, there is a real striving for excellence in the art of Hapkido which is rare and valuable without compromising a sense of fun whilst we train together.  I feel really lucky to be there.  I even came clean about my concerns about aggression with my training partner and it helped me overcome my fears and now we train beautifully.

-Alena

Links & Info: 

Alena’s website: www.alenaturley.com 

Alena’s Blog:SoulMammaBlog.com

Alena’s Martial Art School: https://hapkidomartialarts.com.au/

Andrea’s Motivational Books:

The Martial Arts Woman book: https://www.amazon.com/Martial-Arts-Woman…/dp/1544916213

Martial Art Inspirations for Everyone: https://www.amazon.com/Martial-Inspirations…/dp/150297830X

Podcast: “The Martial Arts Woman” Podcast: https://anchor.fm/andrea-harkins

 

 

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